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Questions & answers
A few things guests often ask. If your question isn’t here, please reach out — we’re happy to help.
When should I RSVP?
Our RSVP page opens closer to the date, with a deadline of Sunday, September 6, 2026 — three weeks before the wedding. We’ll let you know the moment it’s ready.
What should I wear?
Formal or cocktail attire for the ceremony and reception. For the morning tea ceremony, traditional áo dài or formal attire is warmly welcome.
Final dress notes will be confirmed here before invitations go out.
Can I bring a guest or my children?
Your invitation lists exactly who’s included and the number of seats reserved for your household. Because space is limited, we’re only able to accommodate the names on your invitation.
What time should I arrive?
The ceremony begins at 4:30 PM at The Conservatory at One Sansome — please arrive a little before so we can begin together, on time. See the Events page for the full day-of timeline.
Are all the events in the same place?
Not quite. The morning tea ceremony is with family in San Jose; the ceremony and reception are at The Conservatory at One Sansome in San Francisco, about an hour north. Everything is on the same day — Sunday, September 27, 2026.
Is there parking?
Yes. Parking details for each venue will be listed on the Events and Travel pages as they’re confirmed.
What about gifts?
Your presence is the gift. If you’d like to give something more, registry details will be shared closer to the date.
Who can I contact with questions?
Reach out to us directly — contact details will be added here soon. We’re glad to help with anything you need.